You know how when you're small Mom and Dad were the heroes? they could fix anything, they could right wrongs, and heal even broken bones. Then for a spell, friends took place, and you trusted them,and hanged with them, and listened to them. After that the Babes took that part, and here you are, still trusting and loving them and being there for them. Well what do you do when your solid rock changes? honestly, what happens then? you have trusted them so far. And now they up and go change on you. They aren't the same, the do different things, they say things that hurt, they DO things that hurt, and they don't even seem to care. and what happens to you? do you change with them? do u accept them that way and start getting used to them all over? Or do you turn around and start anew?
We humans are social creatures, its is proven that we need other people, so most of our time, we are getting used to people, learning to trust them, learning to love them, and appreciate them more every day. But what do you do when your rocks start shifting? I guess I need your advices. Help a confused girl.
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Well, I'll try. First, people react different from others. In your case, the people who you meet, won't always be who you want them to be. If you try to change them, they might just change the wrong way. I think you should have more patience with them, especially with the babes. Give him time to sort out his thoughts. I'll tell you this though, out of everything bad comes something good. Remember that, always. Don't give up too easily.
Another L*ve dilemma. It's going to pass and when it does, I'm sure you'll learn a lot from it.
Parents. Where to start. They're usually right. Just deal with it and learn what you can, when you can, while it lasts.
People change, emotions change, thats reality.
The problem is dealing with it...
Keep more than one solid rock, keep mom and dad, keep friends, especially them, they are always there for you when "the babes" falls out.
Really, it all depends, we don't know fully the details, but...
Talk it out, get to the root of the problem, and if he is being a real jerk, don't take it as it is, maybe its time to move on.
then again, this could be a time when he needs your patience, if he is experiencing rough times, personally, out of the relationship; It might have nothing to do with you.
Question it, you'll find the answers in the end.
Hey guys thanks so much for the advice- each and everyone was really helpful... trace, your one esp. helped out! thanks
This is my thing.... I keep a really good relationship with God. He is the father to those whose fathers fail them, the friend to the those who's friends ditch them, the teacher to those who have stupid teachers and the comforter when the babes gets flakely (sorry Juds, I am not too experienced in that part). But the point is when ever my relationships are strained and I am not sure what to do, I go lock myself in my room and pray. Pray and make sure everything is Straight between Jesus and me then I ask the King to teach me to be a better friend, daughter, sister, etc. He knows best.
wow!... thanks beth, i guess thats exactly what i needed...
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